Sometimes it feels like it is touch and go when you are raising a teenager.
Everyone's emotions seem to stay on overdrive, especially theirs.
Drama, drama and more drama! Even though it may seem as if the drama will never end, don't worry, it will...
eventually.
When the dust settles, parent and child will be closer for having survived it.
I can't help but suspect that teenagers are wired to act the way they do so that the parents won't cry too much when they move out on their own.
Here are some things to keep in mind while you are raising your teenager: 1) They are never wrong.
Keeping this in mind will make your life much easier.
Even if they weren't even born yet when it happened, they will know more about an event than you do.
It doesn't matter that you were there.
2) As hard as it may be at times, respect their privacy.
You are only torturing yourself when you snoop around their room or read their private journals.
If there is something going on that is life threatening, they will share it with you.
3) Never, ever embarrass or humiliate them in front of their peers.
Your teenagers friends, classmates and teammates are quite possibly the most important people in the world to them during this time of their lives.
4) Don't yell.
If you speak calmly to them they are much more likely to listen.
Screaming at one another only serves to create a never ending shouting match where nothing is resolved and everyone walks away upset.
5) Trust them.
Lead by example and let them make mistakes.
There is a difference in controlling and teaching.
6) Listen when they talk to you.
Even if they seem to be rambling on about something that you find ridiculous.
They are teenagers, you know.
7) Cell phones are a must.
Get a plan with unlimited minutes and texting.
I have raised children both in and out of the cell phone generation.
I wish I could of reached my older children all those years ago when they were out and about.
It would have saved me many nights of tossing and turning.
8) Accept their boyfriend or girlfriend.
If they are secure in who they are and what they deserve, they will dump that loser all by themselves.
Look at each new day with your teenager as a time to make some of the best memories possible as a parent.
Love and enjoy them.
Don't sweat the small stuff.
It is truly possible to get through these years with a smile on your face and theirs, too.