Stop and think about it...
if you don't know what you want online how will you know when you find it? Be clear that this is the avenue you want to take to find your love interest.
Once you are sure this is the route you want to go, then you have to decide exactly what you are looking for.
So many singles just jump online...
hang out for awhile...
make a few mistakes...
run into a few losers...
then run and tell the world than online dating doesn't work.
Online dating doesn't work, if you do not know what you want! The only way to avoid this is to have an exact plan of action.
Be sure of what you want to obtain from online dating.
If you want casual friends...
then that is what you should state in your profile.
If you are looking for a committed relationship, state that in your profile.
It is unfair to you and others to have a "hidden agenda" when you set up your profile.
If you are sure you are only interested in a totally committed relationship, I'm talking marriage, family and living happily ever after...
then don't lure men that are looking for casual relationships and try to "convert" them! It happens all of the time...
and it fails all of the time!! Be true to yourself...
before you even attempt to be true to others.
If you aren't sure what you want exactly, be honest enough to state that.
I clearly state I am not looking for a serious relationship...
but if a good one comes my way I won't turn it down! Before getting involved with online dating, please know what you want! If you don't take the time to determine this in advance...
? You are asking for trouble...
Make up your mind...
then start shopping! The choices are endless...
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