It wouldn't matter where you've been living, as a female you will know other females and without doubt you will know whether they have had problems with dating and most of them will have had.
But speak to a man or compare their success with ours and it's not quite the same - why? It all starts with attitude - men versus women's attitude to dating and why the way a man typically thinks will make him more successful when you compare it to how a woman thinks.
So how does he think? To start off with he believes that he can get any woman he chooses.
So imagine for a minute that you have two people one male one female - the guy thinks he can get any woman to date him but the woman thinks '...
what if he doesn't like me?' Can you see the difference? If our guy had the same thinking pattern as our female would he be so successful? Or would he get so hung up on dating that when he did manage to get a date, he would feel so insecure that he wouldn't be able to relax and need a huge amount of reassurance just to get through the date.
Here's another difference.
It doesn't matter to a guy what he looks like - to a degree.
The guy will think that even if he's small, balding and with a pot belly the size of two beach balls, he can get any woman or at least he can find a woman who will fancy him.
So we have this not physically attractive male with the mindset that not only can he get as many dates as he pleases, but it doesn't matter what he looks like.
And compare that to our female who is slightly overweight and is obsessed with dieting and getting down to a size zero and imagines that everyone will think she's huge and no man of course could possibly think that she is attractive.
Who is going to get more dates? Another difference that makes men more successful in dating Dating to a man is a numbers game.
You know that guys think in numbers right, everything comes down to a score or a tally it's how they keep score - so to speak.
So if they are in business, it's how much money they make, if they are on a team, it's how many touch downs they can make, if they play soccer it's how many goals they scored, if they are in sales it's how many leads they get.
So for them it's just about the numbers, ask enough women out, date enough women and eventually they figure they'll find the right one for them.
It's about going through the no's to get more yeses .
And what do they do when they get the no's- they just think of the odds shortening in their favour and it's just a matter of time.
But for a woman, typically she doesn't think of dating as a numbers game- but if she did, then she could quite happily just say 'next' when she hasn't found the guy whom she wants to date again.
And when she gets a no, instead of thinking that there is something wrong with her, she'll think - it's just a matter of time before she meets the guy she likes she just has to get through those numbers.
See the difference? Put these three together and you have a success formula for dating.
Think you can get any guy, and you can get a guy no matter what your body size or shape, and dating is just a numbers game, sooner or later, you'll get your man.