You want to get your girlfriend back and you want her back now. The only problem is that you don't know what to do to get her back. You have racked your brain trying to find a solution and nothing seems to come up. You could give up on getting your girlfriend back, but that is not what you really want to do.

So, what should you be doing to get her back?

You have to approach your ex girlfriend almost as if she was a brand new girl that you wanted to date. That means you have to let go of the past and start off on a fresh foot. You also have to let go of any pain and hurt that you might feel from your break up. Think of that pain as being toxic to your chances of getting her back.

You also have to accept your role.

Whether you were a big reason for the breakup or not, you have to assume that you did play a role in it. After all, you would still be with her if everything was great. You also have to live in the reality that right at this moment, she is not your girlfriend. This will help your mind to see the situation for what it really is.

Do you want to learn a system to get her back?

You have to approach getting your girlfriend back with a plan or a method. Without a system, you are kind of just hoping everything will work itself out. Which, we all know rarely happens.