Life couldn't have been better; you have been going around with your man and are having a terrific sex life.
He obviously loves you and adores you but there is one thing that pricks you most in this otherwise terrific relationship, why is he not committing to you? Well, maybe he is not ready as yet or may be there are other extraneous reasons.
Here are 7 tips you need to implement that will make him commit.
Tell him you like him for what he is Whether your man is a student or a working professional you need to tell him that you like him for what he is and not for what he can become.
Do not pressure him to achieve more or earn more.
You on your part have to be open and not hide anything from him.
Be your normal self This is what men value the most.
If your man is into sports which is not your cup of tea then don't pretend that you are big sports enthusiast.
The two of you are entitled to your choices.
By being normal, your man will value you more for your honesty.
Freedom There are times when men like to hang out with their buddies or spend weekends with them.
It is way of bonding, so give your man the freedom to do what he likes.
Keeping him shackled or chained to you will unnerve him and he will reflexively try to break free.
Trust Trust is the basis of all enduring relationships.
If you trust him with your friends or other girls he will be more than enamored by you.
Never reprimand him if he becomes a bit friendly with one of your girlfriends.
Once he knows that you trust him fully he will never betray your trust.
Be a low maintenance partner In the initial stages of the relationship he will offer to pay the bills and buy you gifts.
However do not continue with this routine and pick up your share of responsibilities.
You don't want to give an impression that it is only he who wears the pants.
Also women who expect their man to spend all the time rarely receive the respect reserved for those who are independent.
Meet his family For your man to commit to you he should first be convinced that you are family material.
Meet his family and friends and come across as person who is caring and kind.
The man will love it if you talk indulgently about his nephews/nieces or other family members.
It will also convince him that you are worth settling down with.
Loyalty If you like your man and want him to commit to you then you will have to show your loyalty to him.
Do not flirt with other men in his presence or in his absence.
Make it clear that you value sexual fidelity and will never compromise on this one issue.