As a grown man who has had sex before you know how important foreplay is, right? Please say you do.
Before you even think about going down on a woman it is important for you to know just how very important foreplay really is to women.
It is the very beginning of all things sexual and it doesn't have to start when you first think about having sex.
Some people think that foreplay begins in the mind, others say it all starts with touch.
I'm in the second camp for sure.
You have to touch her to get it started.
Touch her exposed skin lightly while she has her clothes on then progress.
Try this: · Hug her and brush your hand up and down her arm · Give her a light kiss and look into her eyes (yes, look in her eyes even if it makes you a little uncomfortable) · Smell her neck · Nibble her ear · Rub her back, shoulders, neck and arms to work out an tension she may be feeling from her stressful day at work or with the kids.
· Ask her to join you in the bath or shower.
Be fun and playful as you both enjoy getting clean before you get "dirty".
All that you are trying to do is let her know that you are in the mood and that you aren't going to act like a complete animal about it..
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yet! This is important.
You can be nice and gentle but don't ever hide your intentions.
Too many guys get caught thinking that its bad for them to let their woman know that they want sex.
Also, know that it can take time.
Women generally take longer to get warmed up sexually.
Its just one of those things you will have to get used to.
Most guys are in way too much of a rush and they have the attitude that going down on a woman is something that they have to "get through" in order to get what they really want, which is inside.
You must show your love and appreciation of her body.
One absolute huge way to do this is by talking to her as well.
Foreplay is that wonderful 8 letter "F" word.
It is the first step to in learning how to give your woman good cunnilingus.