How to Know the Right Time To Kiss A Girl - Dating Tips For Men
So when's the right time to kiss a girl? I remember once reading a whole book of rules for men.
All kinds of stuff like 'don't call her in the first 3 days, you can't kiss her until 4.
3 hours into the first date, make you when you approach her it's from an angle of 37.
2 degrees or you will look needy...
' The reality is that there are no rules.
It's all dependent on how you feel, and how the person you are with feels.
However, I would say that in general, I usually kiss the girl I'm out with within the first hour of meeting (often the first 30 minutes).
If you know how to flirt - it's a back and forth escalation which results in a rising tension between you - then a quick kiss is inevitable as you get to the point where the tension has to dissipate.
Then you just carry on as normal, as you were beforehand.
A kiss is no big deal.
Guys build it up to be this massive moment, but in truth it really isn't.
If she's out with you in the first place, she should already want to kiss you, or else why would she be there? Anyway...
here's how I know it's the right time.
You're flirting, and you have the back and forth rising tension.
You're touching each other more and more, and there's more and more lingering eye contact.
I always try to make sure I'm sat near her or next to her (on a sofa in a quiet corner of a lounge bar is ideal) so that it's easy to touch each other.
If you're sat opposite each other, it's more difficult to create that level of intimacy quickly.
Then we get a moment where you have a lingering eye contact.
I hold the eye contact, smile in a cheeky 'I know you want me right now' kind of way, and move my hand up to her cheek.
I then lean in slowly, but deliberately and confidently, for the kiss.
It's important that you are the one in control here.
You have to act like you 100% know she wants to kiss you back.
There's no hesitation, awkwardness, or waiting to see if she reciprocates.
Act like you've been going out with her 6 months, and you're just pulling her in for a kiss, like boyfriends do with their girlfriends.
Then carry on as normal - don't make a big deal out of it.
Just carry on the conversation where you left off - kiss her some more if you feel like it.
When you do things this way, you get her saying things like 'it just felt so natural' and 'I wouldn't normally kiss a guy so early, but it just felt right'.
Essentially you become the guy that girls make an exception for.
Normally they don't kiss a guy right away, or sleep with someone on the first date - but she doesn't have to follow those rules for you.
It's a nice position to be in...
All kinds of stuff like 'don't call her in the first 3 days, you can't kiss her until 4.
3 hours into the first date, make you when you approach her it's from an angle of 37.
2 degrees or you will look needy...
' The reality is that there are no rules.
It's all dependent on how you feel, and how the person you are with feels.
However, I would say that in general, I usually kiss the girl I'm out with within the first hour of meeting (often the first 30 minutes).
If you know how to flirt - it's a back and forth escalation which results in a rising tension between you - then a quick kiss is inevitable as you get to the point where the tension has to dissipate.
Then you just carry on as normal, as you were beforehand.
A kiss is no big deal.
Guys build it up to be this massive moment, but in truth it really isn't.
If she's out with you in the first place, she should already want to kiss you, or else why would she be there? Anyway...
here's how I know it's the right time.
You're flirting, and you have the back and forth rising tension.
You're touching each other more and more, and there's more and more lingering eye contact.
I always try to make sure I'm sat near her or next to her (on a sofa in a quiet corner of a lounge bar is ideal) so that it's easy to touch each other.
If you're sat opposite each other, it's more difficult to create that level of intimacy quickly.
Then we get a moment where you have a lingering eye contact.
I hold the eye contact, smile in a cheeky 'I know you want me right now' kind of way, and move my hand up to her cheek.
I then lean in slowly, but deliberately and confidently, for the kiss.
It's important that you are the one in control here.
You have to act like you 100% know she wants to kiss you back.
There's no hesitation, awkwardness, or waiting to see if she reciprocates.
Act like you've been going out with her 6 months, and you're just pulling her in for a kiss, like boyfriends do with their girlfriends.
Then carry on as normal - don't make a big deal out of it.
Just carry on the conversation where you left off - kiss her some more if you feel like it.
When you do things this way, you get her saying things like 'it just felt so natural' and 'I wouldn't normally kiss a guy so early, but it just felt right'.
Essentially you become the guy that girls make an exception for.
Normally they don't kiss a guy right away, or sleep with someone on the first date - but she doesn't have to follow those rules for you.
It's a nice position to be in...
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