So you successfully got them through the beginning stages and you and they both survived it.
Now you no longer have to worry about diapers, potty training, choking on a hot dog or getting head lice.
They have now made it over those hurdles and you have all survived.
It is time to celebrate.
But not for too long! Don't be so sure.
Be happy you are getting a full night's sleep, you will need it.
You thought you got through the hard part, but you are only beginning, and here are some helpful hints to get you through.
Expect defiance.
It is used to learn and test the waters.
this is normal and only lasts a couple years.
The best way to deal with a teen, especially if they are upset is to remain calm, and speak slowly and listen.
This is very important.
Be prepared to ask questions, do not try the don't ask, don't tell gimmick.
It is not good parenting to avoid problems or questions that are not comfortable for you.
You will be able to handle problems that arise if you are honest.
Honesty is the most important thing.
Remember, most importantly, you are not their friend.
If your teen didn't need someone to care for them and guide them, you could be a friend.
But, they need guidance and your support, even when no isn't the answer they want to hear.
Be brave and firm, keeping your cool, even when they try to guilt you.