Do you always seem to attract the bad boys? Do you always find yourself with men who hurt you, either physically or emotionally (or worse, both ways)? Do you want to know how to avoid dangerous men? In this article, we discuss the two main types of men that you should avoid, why you should avoid them, and what first steps you can do to start distancing yourself from them.
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There is an unspoken rule that possessive men are to be avoided.
They tend to be overly jealous, and can get physically abusive when they can no longer control their jealousy.
To be in a relationship with an over possessive man means to endure a relationship of distrust and suspicion - and you don't want that.
This guy will try to control you every move, and you will end up feeling resentful and even insecure and powerless.
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Insecure men are also to be avoided or to be wary of.
In many cases, insecure men are also possessive, as they are convinced that they can never get anyone else to love them except you.
It's easy to spot an insecure guy.
He would usually pick fights with other guys who look at you (even innocently).
He may also control the way you dress, saying that you shouldn't show your legs (even if you do so very gracefully).
Some insecure guys go as far as saying that the women they are with is ugly.
This "projection" makes them feel better about themselves.
Remember - you control your own destiny.
If you are not happy at all and you already see signs of possessiveness or insecurity (or both) early on in the relationship, you should get out as fast as you can.
Nip the problem in the bud before it becomes too big beyond repair.
This is for your safety, both physically and emotionally.