For some reasons, the words "live for the benefit of others" have come to my mind for quite some time.
It is like sitting there waiting for me to chew and digest.
At first, I would argue that it might be too philosophical.
It might be too unrealistic for someone (like me) that is still finding joy in all the materialistic gadgets of the world.
But, I must admit that the more I think about it, I find it makes great sense regardless one is living "in the world" or "out of the world", if you know what I mean.
And, that is the reason why I wait till now to share this with you.
It all starts with a point of view.
By paying attention to others' interests first, I would take the position to serve, rather than being served.
I would choose to do things that "add value" to others.
It aligns with the notion than 'giving is always better than receiving".
There have been great examples of this paradigm.
For one, Jesus has been the greatest giver of all.
His whole purpose to this world is to serve others.
The like of Mother Theresa, Gandhi, Dale Carnegie are other fine examples of "living for the benefit of others".
(p.
s.
you might think of other good examples too.
If you do, please write back as we can never have enough of an inspiration.
) By following this paradigm, I have found a new motivation and guidance in doing things that I could have left out.
For instance, I have joined the volunteer work to do "meals on wheels" in the community, and possibly some medical transports down the track.
There is nothing to boast about, really.
But for me, they are important first steps.
Where it would lead me to, only God will know.
As for the present, I am happier because it adds a little bit extra to my purpose in life.
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