Of course you want your ex back again.
The break-up has left you totally devastated and the feeling of emptiness you have inside you is almost unbearable.
However, resist the urge to run after your ex begging and pleading to be taken back again.
Reconciliation will NOT happen this way.
The ideal thing to aim for is to make your ex ask you for reconciliation.
The only way you are going to achieve this, is to leave your ex entirely alone for the time being.
It will be very irritating to your ex if you keep on trying to contact him/her at all times of the day and night, and your begging and pleading will be a total put-off.
You need to make yourself so appealing to your ex that he/she begins to regret breaking-up with you.
The way to do this is to make yourself as irresistible as possible to your ex.
Instead of constantly thinking about how to get your ex back, concentrate on yourself.
Think of how you can improve on yourself, inside and out.
Make sure that your mutual friends see what you are doing.
This way, you will be certain that your ex will hear about how fantastic you look, and how happy you are.
Your ex is not going to accept only hearing about you; he/she is going to want to see for him/herself and will make a point of "bumping" into you.
When this happens, even though you will have the urge to talk about the break-up, DON'T.
Show your ex just what he/she has heard about you.
You already look fantastic, so just be happy as well.
Your ex is going to be amazed at the new you, and will definitely start thinking about getting back together with you again.
In fact, you look so great, that your ex will find it very difficult to think of anything else from now on.
All the hurt and anger that was caused by the break-up will have disappeared.
The way you have handled the situation, will make your ex ask YOU for reconciliation.