Did you recently lose your boyfriend in a breakup? Now, I know it seems tough to get an ex boyfriend back, but there's some good news too and that is that any breakup can be reversed and I personally know people who have managed to get back with their boyfriend and their relationship is still going strong.
And if it makes you feel any better, let me tell you that your boyfriend may be thinking about you right now.
He may even be having doubts whether he has done the right thing by dumping you.
So, it's really not as tough as it seems.
You may not be seeing the way now, but if you calm down a little and be patient you will find it much easier than you thought.
I know you desperately want your love back and you feel really heartbroken right now.
You want to call him right now and apologise or even beg him to take you back, but trust me, these kind of things don't work.
On the contrary, they can make the situation even worse.
Therefore, I want you to keep these 3 things in mind, before you try to get him back or before you give him a call.
1.
Calling your ex boyfriend too soon after a breakup, can drive him away from you - Therefore, no matter how bad you want to call him at the moment, it is better if you wait.
You have to wait at least a few weeks before you try to contact him at all.
Calling him right now will just irritate him and destroy whatever chances you had earlier.
2.
Don't call you ex, if you don't have a good enough reason - Sometimes a girl thinks that she has valid reasons, just because she wants him back in her life.
There are other times, when she makes some silly excuse like "oh, I was dialing someone else's number and I mistakenly dialed yours...
" Assuming, that your boyfriend is not stupid, it's really simple to see through this excuse.
Your boyfriend will immediately know that you are calling him because you are dying to get back with him.
This gives the control of the situation in your boyfriend's hands and you really don't want that to happen.
Not only that.
This will also get your ex boyfriend on the defensive and it will just make it difficult for you to get him back.
The longer you have gone without contacting him, the easier it will be to connect with him again.
3.
You have got to know what you are going to say before you dial you ex's number - You will just sound stupid if you think what to say, after you call you ex's number and it will just annoy him.
Therefore, it is better if you can write down what you want to say.
Do you have a reason for calling? Is there something important you want to talk about? Sometimes, begin spontaneous can help, but not when you are calling your ex days or even weeks after the breakup.
At this point, it is really important to know what to say and how to say it.
And whatever you do, don't talk about the break up or try to place blame on him or even on yourself.
This will just irritate your ex and he could even hang up on you.
I hope you can keep these 3 things in mind because these will help a lot in improving your chances to get your ex back.