Be my Valentine.
You hear those words a lot in the month of February.
What happens when your Valentine is your ex.
It is also the time of year that you hear, "I want my ex back.
" Every where you look you are reminded that love is in the air.
Or it is suppose to be.
With love stories, love songs, and love themes at every turn you can catapult into depression when your love, your valentine, is no longer yours.
What does it take to say those words to her again, "Be My Valentine.
" When you have been dumped, you will get all sort of advise about how to win your ex back.
Most of them involve head trips.
If you want your ex back don't be messing with her head.
Let's take a look at a few pointers of some sound advise.
You will have a better chance getting back with your ex and having your Valentine back if you keep a hold of your head.

• Remember when you were going out, she would text you a couple dozen times a day.
  Your phone has now fallen completely silent.
  Instead of sinking into the pit of silence why don't you call her once a week just to say hi.
  Make sure you absolutely don't overdue it.
  This step will help keep the doors open for a reconciliation.
  When looking forward to a reconciliation it is important to call her on those special days like her birthday.
  
• Keep in touch by email.
  If she is one who religiously checks her emails then send her a news story she might enjoy or a link to something you saw on YouTube.
  Send it to her with a nice short note.
  If that seems to be a little too forward start an email list where you send out jokes or personal updates to a group of friends and make sure she is on the responder list.
  
• If you are crying out, I want my ex back, going out with other girls should not be on your agenda.
  And if you want her to be your Valentine, definitely don't sleep with other women.
  This could prove detrimental when you do get back with your ex.
  
• If she has chosen to date other guys use this to your own advantage.
  Use what you see to analyze the kind of man she chooses to date.
  For instance, if you are an avid baseball junkie and she's now dating an artist, you may need to develop a more sensitive side to you in order to win your ex back.
  
• Remember, you are no longer a couple and there are walls being built up between the two of you.
  This actually can make it easier to see what she needs from a man because your own emotions and feelings are less at play here.
  Read into the things she says and the things she doesn't say.
  Look at her actions and observe how she reacts to things and people.
  

The power of your relationship can be in your hands.
When you spill out all of your deepest emotions and tell her that she is the one and only person you need in your life, then you've just given the power to her.
Hold onto your own destiny by preserving your own power.
This is a necessary step if you want restoration of the relationship to continue after you win your ex back.
Spending time on self improvement you become more attractive to your ex.
During this time of being separated work on yourself.
Make sure you hit the work out sessions regularly so you look good.
Change your hair or consider a new style.
And don't forget to work on your mind as well as your body.
Peace of mind and confidence carry a lot of weight when you are trying to attract your ex back.
I want my ex back echoes down the hall of broken hearts and the lonely hearts club.
Instead of mopping and sinking into depression, try to fix the problems that your relationship had.
When you work on the problems, you build a more solid foundation and you will once again be able to say to her - Be My Valentine.