So there you are.
Alone again.
You thought you had found Mr.
Wonderful but he turned out to be Mr.
Wonderful-to-too-many-others and you don't fancy yourself a happy member of a harem.
Too bad you fell for his flattery.
Just what made you so stupid? You consider yourself to be a bright person.
Must have been that fancy college talk.
Well, now you are in college yourself and you know better.
You saw him in action.
The more you think about it, the more you realize how wonderful your high school sweetheart was but you don't know how to get back an ex-boyfriend.
An ex-boyfriend you have barely communicated with at that.
You wonder whether he has changed.
Of course he has.
He has gone off to college, too.
Nothing wrong with change; you have changed yourself.
You decide to go on a quest to find him and to figure out how to get back an ex-boyfriend.
People keep saying they want to grow old together; you aren't quite there yet but you think you would like to grow up together.
You remember all the fun you used to have.
The first step will be locating him.
Once that is accomplished you need to create some new memories.
After all, something happened to turn him from a boyfriend into an ex-boyfriend.
If you just drifted apart, you have it much easier than most.
How to get back an ex-boyfriend when you split up because he got tired of something you did will be tougher.
You will have to be certain you no longer have that habit, and you have to be able to demonstrate it.
Be the new you.
Approach this relationship as you would any new relationship but with the knowledge that relationships take work.