For a healthy relationship to flourish you need to give your partner attention and devotion, these qualities can make a relationship strong and lasting.
Despite some couples efforts, relationship break ups can happen.
These breakups can cause tremendous stress and frustration for both involved.
Many times when couples break up, once the dust has settled and all is calm again, many times one partner will want to get there ex back.
Getting your ex back after a breakup can be difficult, emotions are sometimes high, anger is in the air.
If you wish to get the relationship back you need to have an edge, you need for your ex to see how important you are to them.
Follow the 5 steps below to get your ex back.
Getting Back Together: Step 1 Be strong.
Begging to be taken back is not an option.
Showing yourself as desperate or needy will have the complete opposite effect that you desire.
You need to show your ex that you are fine, that you have accepted the breakup and moved on.
This can cause your partner to realise that they have not moved on, that they still have feeling for you.
We all want to feel needed, it is a natural thing.
By showing your ex that you have moved on, in most cases they will realise they have not moved on, which in turn will have them wanting you back.
Getting Back Together: Step 2 Minimise communication.
Now you may immediately think this will drive you further apart, but this is a very important step.
With little communication between the two of you it allows your ex to miss you, they will wonder what you are up to.
It also gives them time to think about your relationship.
Remember, you have probably spent nearly every day with your ex through your relationship, whether it was in person or on the phone.
Once that communication stops, it is only human that we miss that time spent.
We ponder on what that person is doing without you, we think of the bad times, but mostly, as we don't want to feel alone or scared we'll think of the good times.
When these thoughts occur your ex will realise how valuable your relationship was to them.
Getting Back Together: Step 3 When you and yourex eventually communicate you need to become a comforter, you need to listen and pay very close attention.
Many times relationships break up due to a lack of communication.
By listening and showing that you are understanding and willing to be flexible you may just surprise your ex, which in turn will allow you both to get that communication flowing that was so badly missed before.
Getting Back Together: Step 4 Be Yourself.
Your ex fell in love with you in the beginning for the person you were.
Think back to the beginning of the relationship, what was different about you? Think how you have changed; think about what has caused the problems.
Have you become hung up on work? Have you gone from fun and exciting to boring? We all change over time, responsibilities change, lifestyles change, sometimes we just become too caught up in the unimportant things.
Let your ex see you for who you, if your reading this I assume your ex is very important to you, not just you but your whole world.
Be yourself, relight that spark you had in the beginning.