No one gets married thinking that they will soon be divorced.
After all, why would anyone choose that life? But when you soon find yourselves facing divorce and separation, it can seem like a hopeless situation.
This is especially true if you've spent your last few months or years together arguing and fighting.
When your marriage starts to feel like a war zone, it can seem like it's easier to give up than to fight for your marriage.
If you really want to get your husband back, and you find yourself facing what feels like an impossible situation, it's time to get back to basics.
To get your husband interested in you again, you are going to have to pull out all of the stops.
This doesn't mean begging and pleading with him to stay.
Instead, it means you need to think about what things were like when you were first married.
Back when you used to do everything you could to be polite to each other and avoid fighting.
After you've been married for a while, you start to get comfortable in your interactions.
You each have your patterns of behavior, and you stop noticing how you interact.
This makes the situation worse once the fighting and arguing begins.
If you really want to get your husband interested in you again, you have to break the cycle and shake things up.
If he said he wants a divorce, he is expecting you to react a certain way.
Chances are, you reacted exactly how he thought you would.
So now he's shut down and doesn't want to talk about it anymore.
So now is your best chance to shake him out of complacency.
What does this mean? It means doing exactly the opposite of what you've done so far.
If you are fighting with him nonstop, it is time to stop fighting.
If you have emotionally detached yourself and are giving him the silent treatment, if you want to get your husband back it is time to start telling him so.
Take a hard look at your patterns of interaction and do whatever you need to do to change it.