If you are looking to get back with your ex but it seems that your ex is not so sure then this article is for you.
Below are some tips that you can follow if you wish to win your ex back and give your relationship another try.
Back off.
If you and your ex have just broken up then this is not the time to call, text or email them.
Plaguing your ex with a hundred text messages and a dozen calls a day will eventually drive them away even further.
Take the time to think.
Chances are you had a part to play in the breakup.
Perhaps you were too busy, jealous or demanding.
Take this time to realize your mistake and change it.
Space is good.
Giving your ex space is also recommended.
Let him or her miss you, which they won't be able to do if you are constantly chasing them.
Pursue a hobby.
Perhaps you've always wanted to learn to play the guitar or volunteer at the local animal shelter.
Now is the perfect time to do so.
Treat yourself.
Even though you feel like the biggest loser as of now, you need to remind yourself that you are fabulous and you are living a fabulous life.
Treat yourself to a vacation or a spa treatment.
Initiate the communication.
Make a quick call to your ex and ask how they are doing.
Keep it short and friendly and don't start an argument.
Don't spy.
Even though spying on your ex is an awfully big temptation, resist the urge to do so.
And no, asking your friends to do the spying is also unacceptable.
Check the field.
Even though you shouldn't rush into any relationship yet, it's good to remind yourself that there are other fish in the sea by going on casual dates.
Go on a date.
Suggest going on a "non-date date" like grabbing a beer after work or seeing your favorite band.
Spend the night just talking and enjoying each other's company.
Be patient.
Understand that getting your ex back takes time so don't put pressure on the situation.