Why do you need to keep 'silent' to get your ex back.
There are various reasons for this and we will try to analyze the reason why this seemingly strange method is very effective.
After the break up, your natural reaction will be to make contacts with your ex immediately.
But in most cases the effort always proves abortive.
You will even discover that instead of your partner giving you attention they will be moving farther away from you.
And you will just be left worse and emptier than you ever were.
If you had been giving your ex incessant calls, you need to stop that first.
Call no more.
Your sudden silence will surely get at your ex.
Through the day his/her mind will continually dwell on the thought of you not calling and he will wish to hear your voice again.
He will get disturbed at the slightest possibility of you already seeing someone else, you can be sure he/she will like to find out.
When he now discovers you aren't seeing anybody he will begin to imagine the possibility of him getting you back.
During this period of silence, time the great healer will enable your partner to get over a lot of the pains and fury caused by the break up.
Afterwards he will give himself sometimes to think over what has happened and because of the great healing work that time has performed on your partner's emotion; all the initial causes of the break up will seemed not to matter now.
It will enable your partner to experience what it feels like not to have you around.
During this period his/her mind will dwell more on all the sweet experience the two of you have had together and you can be sure that his minds will keep on troubling him and his desire for you will be rekindled.