Most guys really don't have any goal of trying to be a seduction "expert." After all, most of those guys are self proclaimed anyway. You just want to know some seduction secrets that will improve your dating life and allow you to achieve mouth watering success with women. And you can.

You have to learn the art of conversation.

The way that you speak to a woman will have a large impact on whether or not she sees you as the kind of guy that she wants to date. And no, I am not talking about pick up lines or anything cheesy like that. I'm talking what really works for real men and in real life.

So, what should you do?

You have to become comfortable with talking to women. And you should not be using the same kinds of subjects that you would with your buddies or a co-worker, or even a family member. You want to ignite a spark with your words. Words are powerful. Think about it. Women always have a song that they hear and they just lose it. It's the words that really get to them. You want to be able to talk in a way that speaks to her emotions.

Women are driven by their emotions.

Now, I know that some would say that this is a generalization and it is. But, we all know that women are more emotional than men are. So, you want to be able to tap into those emotions. Trigger her desire to have fun, to feel sexual, and anything else by using conversation.