You have been dumped.
You really like your ex-significant and you believe that you don't want it to end.
But is it worth it? That is what I'm going to be discussing in this article, because in many cases, a separation may be better than a malfunctioning relationship.
There is really only one deciding factor about whether or not you should get back with your ex: Is the time invested in him or her worth the extreme trouble that that other person may have caused you in your life? To answer this question, we will briefly answer a few easier ones.
If you answer yes to all or most of these, then it probably isn't worth being together.
Did you, during your relationship, have to change your behavior consistently in order to "fit" with that other person? Did you, during your relationship, fight and argue more than you sat down and talked? Did you, during your relationship, feel like other areas of your life was falling apart, while more and more time and energy was being required to maintain you relationship? Did you, during your relationship, ever cheat on the other person just to "pay back" something they did? Did that other person ever cheat? Did that other person ever communicate displeasure in the relationship? Did they ever express concerns that they were being "controlled" by you? Did you ever feel like you were being controlled? Once again, if you answered yes to most of these then its not worth it and its time to move on.
The relationship was too straining, was not healthy and would take a lot more work to repair.
If you answered no to most, then congratulations! Your relationship is not only savable, but most likely desirable.
Hopefully this article has helped you decide if its worth it.