Bachelor party planning isn't limited to making arrangements to have a scantily clad woman jump out of a cake.
It may be a groom's dream party but there are other more interesting ways to plan a bachelor party that can include giant cakes.
First you have to set a date.
The days before the wedding are going to be hectic so giving the bachelor a party that would let him relax and reprioritize can be beneficial.
Ask the groom what kind of party he'd like to have.
Will you have the party at another buddy's home or will he prefer the convenience of going to a restaurant or a club? If he'd rather be surprised and let his best man do the planning (which is traditionally how it goes) then brainstorm with your other buddies and his relatives even his bride to be.
Once you've settled on the date, the theme and venue, what you need to plan next is the budget for the party.
The party expense is shouldered by the friends of the groom, usually the best man but the other guests should pitch in so this consideration affects the choice for the venue, food and the all important booze that's ubiquitous staple in this celebration.
It would be a good idea to plan activities that the groom would usually like to do but hasn't had an opportunity.
Some guests may need to come from out of town so make arrangements for that as well.
The activities also need to be safe but exciting enough for the groom.
Whether you go all out wild at a club or trek through the forest for some serious male bonding time, your bachelor party planning should be something that's centered on the groom's enjoyment.
The guests of the bachelor can include people who have had an influence on him as a person.
It would also be a good idea to invite people who he considers his mentors.
If these people can't come personally, perhaps you can video a message from this person and give the tape as a bachelor gift.
Bachelor party planning doesn't have to be a frivolous affair.
It can be a time to give moral support and encouragement to the groom as he embarks on a serious life-long relationship.
Admittedly, it doesn't sound like a guy thing and depending on the groom's personality may even be quite boring.
If it works, then you'll find that the groom will be thankful.
If not, then it's time for plan B.
Many bachelor party themes and activities have emerged.
The usual drink till you drop parties are still around but other creative thinking activities have been planned such as camping, fishing and bungee jumping have come around.
Other exciting ideas are surfing, diving and even kart racing.
The bride might get antsy with these ideas so try to keep as safe as possible.
A weekend at a dude ranch could also give a bachelor some kicks.
The important thing is that the bachelor and his buddies have a time to bond and give a memorable send off which is ultimately the point for bachelor party planning.