Does the thought of your ex make you want to smash something? Or, do you go up in smoke every time you see that two timing guy/gal walking down the street? Relax! You're not the only one who is frustrated on being "dumped" by his/her partner.
The following tips will guide you.
1.
    There is choice before you: either you forget your ex and treat the whole episode as a "bad joke" or you decide to get him/her back because you can't get over him/her.
2.
    Forgive and forget.
You can't go ahead with your plans if you are carrying all that extra baggage of hurt and bitterness.
3.
    Get a "hot" new look.
Gear up your image to get your ex interested again.
Change that drab style and look sexy enough to eat! 4.
    Get ready to compete.
You have to do your best to knock out the competition.
Every time you see your ex with the new hot lover make sure he/she can make comparisons between the two of you.
5.
    Don't express any anger/hurt/bitterness instead a kind, loving and considerate manner will surprise your ex who expects you to spew fire and brimstone every time you meet! 6.
    Don't be predictable.
Every time your ex meets or sees you he/she should see a new facet of your personality - This is the time to show off your talents like you never have before! 7.
    Put yourself in your ex's shoes.
Don't let your ex's behavior rattle you.
It could be that he/she is trying to make you jealous by flaunting his/her new conquest.
This will stop you from reacting.
8.
    Don't seek revenge.
If you have truly forgiven and forgotten then you will not do anything to hurt your ex.
9.
    Saying "sorry" helps.
This little word can melt the stoniest heart.
10.
    Be ready to take the first step.
Let your ex know that you are ready to kiss and make up.