Have you just separated from your fiance and are wondering how much space and time to give her before you start working out something? The right answer at this time can be not so obvious.
The answer is to deny it any more time.
Play according to this simple set piece: Have your chin up, breathe easy and calm down because this is not the time to loose it.
Remember your aim is to be the comeback king and the only way you can do so is by proving that you can stay well below boiling point, even when you are under fire.
Do not be duped into believing that it will all be a bowl of ice cream.
Avoid such tactics as going on the offensive and trying to rub off part of the stress on her too.
This will totally throw you off the mark.
Many people crumble to pieces while trying to do this.
As much as you are on the spotlight, do not hog all the attention like a spoiled brat.
Think about her too.
To get your systems back online, you need to allow her some audience.
Stay open-minded even if you do not agree on everything.
Make it your business to establish good sentiments once again.
Avoid any knee-jerk reactions that may push you further down the pecking order once your marriage is cut short.
There is still some slight glimmer of hope even when it looks obvious that she has called it quits.
Stay consistent and take advantage of that time apart but do not consider it the end! The worst scenario you may expect is when she lets you know that she does not intend to be with you again.
Accept this but respectfully ask for a second shot at everything.
Besides, you have nothing to loose by doing this.
With time, it may prove that you were genuine and the opposites will attract with time.