Break ups are unfortunate events in life, and trying to save a relationship is very difficult at this time.
Unfortunately, 99% of the relationships lead to a sure breakup, while they could have been saved with a little effort.
This happens because most of us do not know how to react in such situations.
One wrong move and our partner parts away forever.
When a breakup happens, we usually pour our heart out, ignorant of the fact that it is better to put a lid on it at that time! We are talking about dealing with the situation in three steps so that we can maximize our effort to save a relationship.
At first glance, this technique may seem very peculiar, but it has proven to be quite effective in most of the complicated situations.
Step 1: The first step to save your relationship is to come to terms with the fact that you have broken up with your partner.
We understand that there is an internal battle going on in your heart.
But this is the best thing to be done first.
This will help you stay calm and understand the situations when and why exactly you broke up.
This will give ample time to your partner as well to think about you and miss you.
Do remember that your nagging will only make your partner more upset and go mad and as a result you may lose your partner forever.
Step 2: The second step is to close all the communication with your partner.
I know you are probably ready to close the browser right now! But, hold on, it really works.
By doing so, you are giving your partner space and time to miss you.
As a result, you are making your chances of getting back better.
This will help your partner as well to get over the breakup.
Step 3: Now the final and most critical step is to plan an event.
Try to plan an even when both of you can reconnect.
It may be party, a gathering or any event when both of you can talk for some time.
Initially, when you see each other, try not to show that you are deeply moved due to breakup.
Just start your conversation with anything else that will make the whole atmosphere comfortable.
Try to be humorous as well, so that both of you can be comfortable with starting communication again.
Next, confess and say sorry for your past mistakes in your relationship.
But, the key is to stay totally calm and serious.
All you need to do is to make her realize that both of you were so good together.
The rest of the conversation depends upon what exactly happened with you.
But do remember to make her realize that you are more mature and responsible right now, and are looking forward to getting back together.