When your ex boyfriend will not talk to you and let you say you are sorry after a breakup it can be very frustrating. No matter how you try to communicate with him, he just ignores you. It has been several days since he told you he needed some space, but it seems like years. You feel that if you could just make him understand how much you love and need him, he would want you back. In desperation, you call him and as soon as you hear his voice you lose your pride and start crying and begging.

If you think this will make him rush right over and comfort you, nothing could be farther from the truth. Your ex boyfriend is more apt to hang up on you and vow to never speak to you again. But even then, your emotional condition will not allow you to face the fact that he wants to be left alone. You are afraid that if you do not keep reminding him that you are still around, he will find someone else. This causes you to redouble your efforts. You call him at all hours of the day and night. You send emails and text messages by the hundreds. By doing these things, instead of making him love and miss you, he is sure he did the right thing by dumping you.

If you want to make him love you again, you have to show him you do not need him. So far, he has had it all his way. He can do whatever he wants and know that you will be there when he wants you. It is time for you to change things around and put some doubt in his mind. Drop out of sight and have no more contact with him. Give him a chance to see what life is like without you. When he does not hear from you for a few weeks, he will be confused. Your ex boyfriend will wonder why you stopped chasing and trying to get him back.

Now it will be time to let him see that he could lose you completely. Go out with your friends and be seen having a good time. Take a couple of good looking guys with your group, but do not have a date. You just want them along so that the news will get back to your ex that you were seen having a great time. He will be upset that there were some guys along and wonder if one of them was your date. While you have him worried, finish the job. Send him an email and tell him you thank him for the time you had together, but now you can see the breakup was for the best. Wish him good luck and good bye. Now, watch him change in a hurry.