Everyone has gone through break ups and broken hearts.
Healing amidst the pain is never easy that most people would want to know what the ways to achieve this are.
Although there is really no clear answer as to how you can heal a broken heart, but you can always start the healing process.
Some people find writing break-up poems very effective.
By expressing how they feel and letting out their emotions, it helps relieve them of the pain and allow the healing process to happen.
Some like writing on journals.
Writing is very therapeutic and can certainly give the writer a better perspective after all has been said.
In fact, many people write very well during the time they are in pain as the words the flow are from the heart.
Others think rebound relationship is the answer to healing.
But this is very wrong as it can be very unfair not only to the other guy but to yourself too.
If you are still waiting for your ex to come back, you might want to explore some of these options.
First, never cling to him.
Although this can be very hard especially if you truly love him, yet, men do not like clingy women.
They need a breathing room.
The more you hold on to him, the more he wants to leave.
Sometimes the hardest thing to do is the right thing to do.
Let your ex go and leave him alone.
Give him the space he needs as it may be a time that he might realize how important you are to him.
Question then would be, how long should you wait for him? The moment you resist the urge to call him or communicate with him, the faster he might realize how much he needs you in his life.
Never show him you are desperate.
The more he will not come back.
Finally, if he does not come back, then it is a sign that your relationship is not meant to be.
It is better that you realize it now than waiting a longer time to discover the truth.
Again, it can be painful but you will survive.