If you have separated, chances are that there was a pretty good reason for it.
If you are trying to get back with your ex and it was your fault you split up, it is usually easier than if you were the one dumped.
This is because you can use the strongest thing in your arsenal; an apology.
As hard as it can be for some people, if you don't start with a sincere apology, you won't have much of a chance.
It takes a lot of courage to admit that you messed up and your ex will appreciate that.
Once you have apologized, you can ask for a fresh start.
Some exes will go for this but some won't.
If your ex wants to date you again,do everything they always wanted you to do.
If your ex partner always wanted you to go to yoga with him, then now is the time to do it.
You will be pleased to discover how even what looked boring become magic with a person you love.
Call him once in a while.
It is very important.
Not every day but every few days just to say hello and check up on him.
Make sure you ask how they are feeling in a neutral way.
If you call up and sound really needy, it might push them away even more.
Avoid calling too much if you fell your ex might be stressed from it.
Don't date other people.
If you decide to hit the bars and pick up a woman, you are going to be in big trouble.
Odds are if it was a mutual breakup that happened not long ago, your ex won't be dating any person so you should not date either.
They might just be trying to wait you out.
Women do stuff like that.
Don't pressure them.
Make sure you stay a part of their lives for a while.
You never know when reconciliation can happen.
Lots of people make promises they never keep.
Show your ex your love by keeping those promises that you broke long ago.
Promise to neuter your dog but never went through with it? Sorry boy, it's time for the vet.
This can make a world of difference to your ex.
They will know you are really trying hard to get them back by making good on things from before you split up.
Don't mess around with your exhead.
When you talk to them, don't make up stupid things or try to guilt or manipulate them.
This will only lead to disaster and make you look like a jerk.
Above all, do not be jealous.
If they are going out with their friends, don't confront them about it.
It's their life not yours.
Be supportive and caring instead, tell them you don't want them to get hurt.
Don't play hard to get.
If your ex finally says "Let's try again" just go with it.
Don't say "Oh, I don't know, I'll have to think about it.
" That could blow your only opportunity.
I wrote this article based on my past experienced.
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Sharon Cooper.