Having to experience a break up is painful.
When you try to contact your ex, you may experience avoidance or rejection when you call him or her on the phone.
Oftentimes, when you try to reach your ex, they make themselves unavailable just not to answer your calls.
Here are 4 helpful tips on how to get your ex to return your phone calls and not get rejected: o Stop communication with an ex for a while.
When a break up occurs, there is an underlying problem in the relationship.
During breakup, the first thing you must do is give the person time to think.
It will be hard for the first few weeks but this will be helpful for you will also have the time to focus on yourself and rethink your approach.
o Be mindful of what you will say.
Faking an emergency or making the call sound immediate is a common mistake.
It will sound like you are lying just to get the attention.
Some plead, only making them sound weak and miserable.
These tricks will only make an ex irritated.
The best thing to do is to make your ex curious, for example, "Hey Mike, thank you for changing my life.
"  This will make your ex think about what was he has done to change your life, and may eventually lead him to call you just to ask.
o Don't try to make your ex jealous.
This is the one strategy that a lot of people do just to get their ex back.
It may work in some circumstance but often, this only gives very minimal chance for reconciliation.
Your ex might assume that you are happy and have moved on with your life, urging him to do the same as well.
Don't send the wrong idea, so they will not drift away.
o Stop bombarding your ex with calls, emails, and voicemail.
It is irritating to have to scan through emails and voicemails just to hear from the same person over and over.
It is not a good strategy to repetitively convey to your ex that you love them and can't live a day without them.
Instead, take time assess what happened and rethink what you should do when you approach your ex.