Although you may fear divorce because your partner has mentioned it, doesn't mean that your marriage is over.
You still have a very good chance of stopping it and improving the situation between the two if you.
We would like to share 5 thoughts that can help you to stop your divorce from happening.
One: If you spouse wants a divorce but you want to stop your divorce then don't try to alter their feelings regarding it.
Stop focusing on divorce and start focusing on the positives of the marriage.
Can you remember how you treated them when you first met? Then start to treat them that way again.
Chances are all the good feelings you both have for each other are buried below years of conflict and resentment.
Get back that loving feeling.
Two: Discover your partners needs and values.
Values are the things that we perceive as most missing in our lives.
What we perceive is missing becomes our mission to fulfil.
We normally treat others by how we would like to be treated.
So how does your spouse treat you? How do they normally express love to you? Try expressing your love to them in the way that they do to you.
If you need to stop your divorce you need to discover your partners values.
Three: What are the traits that most annoy you about your partner? Make a list.
Be childish and be ruthless.
Once you have that list in front of you, go though them one by one.
You need to look at each and determine where in your life you have displayed that trait.
Once you have done that, determine how that trait served you.
This will allow you to feel more compassion towards your partner.
Four: Now just because you spouse has put a cap on her feelings for you doesn't mean that you have to do the same.
Forget about being loved and start loving.
Don't act with a childish mentality that states "I'll love you when you love me".
That attitude will never stop your divorce.
Be the first to make the move and be the first to show your feelings and love.
Do it from the heart and because you love your spouse.
Do not do it to get anything back in return.
Treat others as you would like to be treated if you want to save a relationship Five: Remember that it is nobody else's responsibility to make you happy.
It is all yours.
Do not blame another's for your downfalls.
Doing so gives the power you have to others and when you give the power to others you have no control over changing it.
Take control, take responsibility, then you can change any situation you may find yourself in.
So take responsibility and stop your divorce.