Marriage and relationships are life's greatest gifts. They could be the source of strength, courage, inspiration and comfort but they could also be the source of our distress and misery. There will always be an exception to the rule and the relationship at the present is top priority. It is of great importance to analyze or size up the situation to win your wife back. Be involved in the relationship and do the part of knowing what is really happening. Awareness plays a very huge part in order to address the problem. No one can solve something without fully learning about the circumstances the relationship is suffering from.
Some people back down after discovering the real issue in the troubled relationship. Others succumb to denial or avoidance. These are reaction when a partner or a spouse failed to accept the nature of the situation. It takes deeper understanding to deal with the issues that involved emotional, physical or intellectual factors in the resolution of the problem. Most people misinterpret growth or change and personality. There are individuals that refuse to change or grow because they believe that they are who they are. Change is something that will alter their personality instead of perceived as improvement. When a person accepts own faults and the will to change, it opens a new door not only for personal growth but of the relationship as well.
It could be too easy for these articles to pinpoint what needs to be done but all of these are based on real life experiences. The change and the growth entirely depend on the decisions that will be made after realization and acceptance. Not many lovers know that change and growth can be the bridge that will lead the relationship to the other and brighter side. Change comes when we have lost something, when we endured pain. As the phrase says, €There is no growth without change, there is no change without loss and there is no loss without pain.' It could be painful to lose something but it is never too much to change and experience growth in order to win our wife back.
All great things in life cannot be bought but earned. Same goes with relationships, partners and spouses. A lover should earn the heart of his beloved in the courting phase or dating phase of the relationship. Even as time goes, everything in the relationship is still like courting. It is very satisfying when we earned what we desire most. Commitments placed too much confidence that we will have the person we love most no matter what happens and what happened is we take them for granted and thought that they will always be there. One should change or rather improve beliefs, principles and values, and this inner growth will be the key to win your wife back.
After realization, acceptance, change and growth the next step to do is to make the first move. The very first thing is, write a very short letter to your spouse or partner. Tell them, you agree with them and the circumstance was unbelievably a way for you to realize so many things and you just felt that your partner should know. After that letter, establish a friendship. Communicate in order to win your wife back, talk to her like she's your best friend and only mentor.