Are you confounded by the mysteries surrounding love? Have you never fallen in love and you're not sure how this strange emotion manifests itself? Are you now at a stage in your life where you'd like to meet a good man and build a life with him? Love is one of those emotions that is difficult to comprehend and even more difficult to attain.
But once you have it, the efforts you've put in are well worth it.
This article will help clarify the workings of the heart.
You've probably noticed that many men go out on the prowl hoping to hook up for a sexual escapade.
Increasingly, many women play into this game and willingly give themselves to men they know little about.
While some women do go in knowing that they only want to play, some go in hoping something more will come of it.
For these women, it can be easy to read love and affection into every touch or every word from this man she barely knows.
Her heart is soon attached to him while he is already considering his next conquest.
If you want to find true love, you have to be able to touch his heart, and rolling around in bed with him simply doesn't cut it.
Work instead on building a true bond with him.
It can help if you're able to simply think of him as a good friend those first few encounters.
What happens when you view the relationship as platonic rather than romantic is that all the pressure is diminished.
Not only are you calmer because you're not weighing every word with the importance of bringing this romance along, but he's also offered the opportunity to just relax and have fun with you.
Of course every date should have you learning something new about him; not just in what he tells you, but in what you witness by being with him.
Same goes for him.
While it can be good to go for that all-nighter conversation that has you both discovering a lot about one another, it's really in the time you spend together that an emotion bond will grow.
This is where you need to be patient.
Like anything worthwhile, it takes time to grow.
Often times it takes him a little longer than it might take you.
Don't fret about the gap.
Many men aren't as in tuned to their emotions as women, and some men may even fear the growing affection they feel.
Give him time to sort it all out and come to realize he is falling in love with you.
If you're not pressuring him and all he sees are the great times he has with you and the wonderful way you make him feel, the love will come.