So you've taken some sound advice and cut off all contact with your ex girlfriend.
 Congratulations, that's a step in the right direction.
 But what should your next step be? What happens when the emotions subside and you're ready to try to win her back? Is it possible to do nothing and expect her to come crawling back to you?   Mustering up the courage to stay away from her for a few weeks puts you way ahead of most guys.
 You've avoided all the emotional anguish and didn't burn any bridges.
 That's going to bode well for your efforts in the future.
 For now, you've got to concentrate on creating desire and attraction.
 Nothing is going to happen if you can't get her interested again.
  While you should try to make contact with her, you definitely don't want to be emotional about it.
 Approach her as a good friend and leave it that way until you get signs that she's coming around.
 Show her your personality and remind her of why she fell in love with you in the first place.
 Forget about the old relationship, it's pretty much history.
  This is going to be a long process and you're going to face some challenges but it is definitely doable.
 The thing to remember in the beginning is to keep meetings and phone calls short, charm her, make her laugh, and give her a reason to want you back.
  Remember that desire isn't a choice and few of us have control over it.
 In order to create desire, you've got to strike a chord with her on many levels.
 The attraction she feels for you must be genuine and can't be forced.