If you are a woman that is well loved in a relationship, you probably do not worry much about relationships.
A woman that is well loved usually does not have to worry.
Everything goes right for her.
Numerous men frequently call, or she has a boyfriend that is so in love, or she has a fantastic marriage.
A woman that is well loved chooses the men she wants to be with.
With or without a man, the well loved woman exists and does not coexist.
This is why she always has a man by her side.
Well loved women are not necessarily good looking, youthful, wealthy, or intelligent.
These women have wisdom or a certain emotional intelligence.
They have a natural know how or learned in life by observing her own actions and the actions of others.
The well loved woman learned how not to make basic and fatal mistakes that many women make time and time again.
The well loved woman even though she has a certain savoir faire in love she is like you and I, and we could all become like her.
What about destiny and luck? Yes, this may play a part but keep in mind that our destiny is also shaped by our attitudes and actions.
Of course, just like anyone, the well loved woman also may enter relationships that do not end up working out.
The difference is that the well loved woman does not let herself become messed up by the relationship the way many women do.
She has a certain strength within her that keeps her moving forward and there are mistakes that most women make that she will never make.
These mistakes prevent our relationships from working out.
I will tell you more about these mistakes shortly.
I myself have made some of the mistakes that the well loved or what I call the beloved women, do not allow themselves to commit.
I guess I thought that men were just like me and therefore they must want and need the same things that I want and need.
I thought that with just a little more patience, talking, a few good fights, and persistence, things could be resolved in all relationships.
Boy was I wrong.
Interested in the topic of relationships and psychology, I have read a lot about relationships but the best kind of learning has been through experiences of my own and of others that I know.
I had to learn, but more importantly in some ways I had to make a transformation and liberate myself to be more in control of my love life and not make the same mistakes by saying "with this one it will be different" or something along those lines.
We women always make excuses to make repeat mistakes.
The mistakes that women make seem utterly simple but extremely crucial.
It can make all the difference between a beloved woman and the woman that lives in pain because of making certain mistakes in her love life.
Whether you are single, married, old, young,as a woman, if you understand and prevent common mistakes in your love life, you will have more peace with yourself and with others.
But you do need to have a real desire to make a change and this change comes about when the pain of walking on the same pathway and making the same mistakes, becomes unbearable.
It is when your anxiety, fears, tears, loneliness, and pain becomes too much to handle.
You begin a transformation when you realize that you can create a new life for yourself through a wonderful process of knowing that you really can do it.
Pain is inevitable, but suffering is optional.