Happy married life is one based on the promise and will of God.
God reveals His will to us through the following means: i.
Vision ii.
Dreams iii.
Audible Voice iv.
Inner voice of the holy spirit v.
Intuitive spiritual perception vi.
Direct revelation from the word of God vii.
Special God given love that cannot be quenched by temporary contrary circumstances.
The love not be the mere natural attraction or affection that generates through friendly visitation, familiarity and exchange of gift.
After you have prayed and know what God wills for you through the various methods discussed above.
You must then subject your choice through the following question or test to ascertain whether it is from God or from your self will: o Is this will based on emotion, feeling, assumption or presumption or on the word of God? This is called Promise Test.
o Will this union allow me to achieve the purpose of God in my life? This is called Purpose Test.
o Will this union give me worry, anxiety, stress or peace? This is called Peace Test o Will my spiritual leader confirm this union because you must act like an orphan? This is called Pastor Test.
o Are there compelling force that are saying "do it now","do it now", "act fast".
This is called Patience Test.
Many marriages have collapses today because they did not involve God in their marriage, for us to live happily with our wife, our husband, and our children plan must be made ahead of time and more so all our plan must be taken to God for acceptance and confirmation.